Spend time writing to your inner child. Use the “Writing with the Other Hand” tool if you like. The step-by-step guide is in your PDF. Get to know this little kid. Ask, “What makes you happy? And what makes you sad?” Think of creating a relationship with your inner child just like you would do with a new friend. Allow any feelings to surface and write about them. Allowing your inner child to express his or her wants and needs is key to feeling safe and loved.