The Enlightened Family®:
Why Your Family Struggles and How to Stop It
4-Part Audio Series
Give Your Family the Best Chance at Inner
and Outer Success and Happiness!
Do you worry about your family? Want the best for them? I’m sure you do. If I were to guess, you love them so much that you’d do just about anything for them. You want to make sure your loved ones have a roof over their heads and food on the table and all of the comforts of home? Right? You constantly think about how you might make life better for them. If you have kids still at home, you spend a LOT of your time preparing them for the future hoping they’ll grow up to have abundance and success. You feel as if it’s your job to make sure everyone is happy, whether it’s your kids, your spouse or your parents. You want your family to know happiness inside and out. You want them to feel as if they belong and as if they are enough. You want them to feel loved.
So what do you do? In your zest to do it right, you put yourself on the backburner and, pretty soon, not only are you on a hamster wheel of stress and struggle, but your family is, too!
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Hi, I’m Terri Britt! In a moment I’m going to share a huge AHA I had about why I was trying to do it right for my family and how it created a tremendous amount of stress for all of us and shut us down to having inner and outer abundance. And I’m going to tell you how I shifted it. But first, I want you to know that I get how you feel about your family. Like you, I love mine, too, and have had all the same fears and concerns. I’m a wife, mom and stepmom (all of my kids are now adults and on their own). I’m also a spiritual coach, energetic healer, former Miss USA and the author of the award-winning book, The Enlightened Mom: A Mother’s Guide for Bringing Peace, Love & Light to Your Family’s Life.
Like so many families, mine was completely stressed out. I didn’t understand why. I just assumed this was what families did. Everyone else was doing it. Then I decided to shift my life and stumbled onto a BIG SURPRISE.
I’ll never forget the day of my big AHA. I did an energetic healing on my mom as she was recovering from a stroke. I wanted to remove some of the negative energy she was holding onto. As she left the room, I heard a very distinct message in my ear. It said, “You’re not to blame for your mother’s pain.”
“Huh?” I asked.
I heard it again: “You’re not to blame for your mother’s pain.”
My mom was a typical mom. She did everything for my sister and me, believing it was the loving thing to do. She thought it was her job to mold us into being good girls so we could have the best chance at success, love and happiness.
Mom lived by the same “good child” rules. They were rules she learned as a kid and carried into adulthood—rules that told her how a good mom should be.
The rules said, “You have to be good to be loved. You have to treat everyone else as if they matter more than you do, and you have to put yourself last. It is your job to make everyone happy and successful. You must ‘do it right,’ and only then will you receive love and happiness in return.”
Yes, mom was no different than most moms. She truly believed that following the rules was the loving thing to do because that is what she was taught. What I saw, however, was my mom not treating herself as if she mattered. Mom didn’t love and honor the way she was created. And because she treated herself this way, she was often an emotional mess. I didn’t understand this back then. I didn’t realize that it was her lack of loving herself that caused her pain. I thought I was to blame.
So what did I do? I spent a big part of my life trying to “do things right.”
I didn’t understand this drive inside of me back then. All I knew was that I felt an extreme need to work really hard and go after every achievement and award, believing these things would bring me love, success and happiness. Instead, I felt unfulfilled and like an emotional mess.
When I became a mother, I continued this drive to do things right. I put myself on the backburner and made it my job to make my family happy. I truly believed this was love. But I didn’t feel very loving. I often found myself screaming and yelling at my kids, trying to mold them into being good. I had bought into the belief that such behavior would bring my kids success and rewards, and make them happy adults.
When I heard those words in my ear that said, “You’re not to blame for your mother’s pain,” a wave of truth washed over me: THIS is why I feel so responsible for other people’s happiness, not just mom’s. This is why I keep trying to “do it right” for my family. I watched mom deny herself and I took on the belief that I was the cause of her pain. And now I’m denying myself and performing for my family, living from a space of guilt, because I believe that I am responsible for their pain and happiness! But the truth is I’m handing my pain to my kids!”
And then I went deeper. I knew my dad could not forgive himself after losing everything in a bankruptcy; he became an alcoholic and a hermit, dying from cancer at the very young age of 54. He had spent his whole life trying to “get it right” for our family and felt as if he had failed. While in therapy, I learned that I was a lot like dad because I didn’t have much forgiveness for myself. However, I didn’t realize why. But thanks to the big aha moment I had with my mom, I now knew why:
Wow! What a wild discovery!
I was so blown away that I wanted to know more, so I became an observer of my family. I thought I was the only one trying to “do it right,” but I was wrong! My husband was doing it too. And we were both passing those rules on to our family.
That’s when I knew how stressed and dysfunctional our family had become. The loving feeling my hubby and I had known in the beginning of our romance had completely vanished. My kids were always fighting. It literally felt like our family had fallen apart. Communication had pretty much come to a halt. Our home felt as if a black cloud were hovering over it.
I felt so angry and filled with resentment. I felt like everyone else’s needs were being met but mine. I was constantly frustrated and the knee-jerk reactions I had to my kids’ behavior left me riddled with guilt. Do you ever feel that way? You’re trying so hard to do it right that you explode. And then the tears come. Or maybe you bury yourself in work like my husband did and pull away from your family.
I was angry because I was tired, rundown, and felt my feelings didn’t matter while my husband continued to work himself to death believing that was the loving thing to do.
I knew that if I wanted my marriage to survive and my kids to thrive, I had to stop the cycle of pain that had been handed down from generation to generation and find a new way of being a family. Thankfully, I found it before I actually killed someone!
As I mentioned earlier, I am an energetic healer. Through a lot of schooling and practice, I learned tools to shift the energy in my life and home. All of a sudden, the stress began to melt away. The walls came down between my husband and me. And get this, my kids quit fighting! Woo hoo! I heard my youngest, Kolbi, who is now in her early 20s, tell someone a few years ago, “My sister and I used to fight all of the time. And then one day it stopped. I don’t know why, but it did!”
Well, I know why! And I’m going to share with you how it happened and a whole lot more in my newest audio series that will help you shift your life and home from stress and struggle to peace, joy, miracles and abundance.
I’ve been working with energy for over two decades now and I’ve been teaching clients for almost as long. This program is the culmination of studying the dynamics of the family and what truly sets the tone for a family to experience happiness and success.
“Terri, I listened to the first audio and feel a shift in myself and my children already. I’ve been attempting the peaceful parenting path for a few years now and have been failing miserably. Thank you for this series and for your words of wisdom. I really feel confident now that I have the tools and I can do this! I look forward to the miracles!” ~Monica Donnelly Saunders
I had no idea when I decided to shift my life that anything would happen other than I would be a happier, more loving mom. But then little miracles started happening. It was as if I stepped into a divine flow and life got easier. Well, that definitely made me a lot more fun to be around! THEN LITTLE MIRACLES (like the one where my kids quit fighting) TURNED INTO MAJOR MIRACLES! I’m talking HUGE ones that blew my mind. I share some of these in this series and how I helped create them. I say “helped” here, because I truly believe that we have the power to create miracles when we get into alignment with God.
The old way of family creates separation, pain and struggle because you’re not honoring and loving the way you were created. It takes you out of alignment with God. The way of The Enlightened Family® takes you straight to God and opens you up to peace, happiness, abundance and miracles.
My dad used to have a saying that became a joke in our family, “Do as I say, not as I do.” But this is exactly what parents do. We drive ourselves into the ground, trying to “do it right” for our families hoping that our kids won’t have to do it when they grow up. But, and it’s a BIG BUT…
As I mentioned earlier, I’ve been teaching and studying energy for over two decades and I’ve seen a LOT of people step back when I say the word “energy.” There’s nothing to be afraid of!
Science tells us that we are all energy. We now know that emotions have been calibrated and each holds a certain vibration. Some are very low and some are very high. And they are like magnets! Whatever emotions you’re holding onto determine if you draw positive or negative energy to you. For instance, guilt is one of the lowest energies. That means if your child feels bad about himself because he feels he has to perform to be loved, “do it right” or always be good, he’s living from guilt. Doing so will make life harder for him because he’ll attract situations that hold the same low vibration. I don’t think you want your child to feel this way and I know you don’t want to create a cycle of stress and pain for your kids. To stop the cycle, you want to shift the energy to raise your vibration and open up to receive God’s unlimited abundance. And that’s what I’m going to show you how to do!
“You were a wonderful success at the Viva La Life! Conference. I attended your session, ‘Parenting: A Path to Spiritual Growth and Healing,’ personally and was moved by your ability to connect with the participants. One attendee’s evaluation stated that the best part of our conference was your presentation. Congratulations and keep up your fine work.” ~ John J. Pujol, Area Conference Chair, Young Presidents’ Organization
“Terri Britt is one of the most instrumental people in my life through my transformational journey! A phenomenal intuitive, a powerhouse in helping me be a better mom and a more confident woman! Thanks, Terri!” ~Amy Lundberg
It’s absolutely incredible to see people’s lives change by using The Enlightened Family® tools. What was really cool was witnessing how some families who used them during one of the worst economic disasters in our history walked through it with grace and ease.
There were also families who were about to divorce that not only got back together again, but renewed passion and romance!
And like every parent’s biggest concern, I’ve seen kids who were on the brink of depression turn into happy kids again because their parents used my tools.
What about YOUR kids? Are you worried about them? Do you feel you and your family are on the hamster wheel to success and don’t know how to get off? Do you strive and strive to provide for your family but can’t seem to get a break? Have you lost that lovin’ feeling and just want to run away?
Here’s what we’ll cover in The Enlightened Family® 4-part audio series:
The old way of being a family— parents driving themselves into the ground trying to provide for their kids and make sure they are happy and successful— isn’t working. Families are stressed out and falling apart, and home is filled with emotional chaos due to everyone trying to “get it right.” It’s time to stop the performance! In this session:
You can’t afford to miss this first session! I don’t think you want to perpetuate a cycle of pain and suffering for your family. The old way of being family creates stress and struggle, but as you’ll see in this first session, you have the power to create change in your life and home. This is the most precious gift you can give your loved ones!
Daily family life often seems like a struggle. We feel buried in crap (the daily minutia of life) and don’t know how to get out of it. But the crap can be a gift for learning about yourself and moving into alignment with God. In this session:
Finding the gift in the crap shifts your life from being a victim to being empowered in every situation that life throws at you. You cannot afford to miss this session! The tools I teach here are the main ones I’ve used over the years to transform not only my life, but my home as well, from emotional chaos to peace, happiness and miracles. They are so powerful! I can’t begin to tell you how important they are to being an Enlightened Family and for setting your loved ones up for inner and outer success and abundance.
Struggles over money are one of the biggest issues that plague families. They are the main reason we stay on the hamster wheel of stress. Yet seen in the right way, money problems are a gift! They are mirrors to the lack you feel inside. In this session:
You want the best for your family and “the best” has to do with being open to receive the things they need and want to live joyful, happy lives. But as long as you have negative false beliefs around money, the chances are you’re going to hand your money struggles over to the ones you love without even knowing it! I know you don’t want to do this. This session is a key element into breaking the cycle of inner and outer lack that gets handed down from generation to generation. You don’t want to miss this session!
The old way of being family creates separation between the parents. Kids come first, resentments build, and needs are not met. Pretty soon, parents have lost that loving feeling and the stress skyrockets for the entire family. But as you commit to breaking down the walls between you and your partner and create intimacy, passion and romance, you not only bring cohesiveness to the two of you, but your kids will sense the love and safety in the home. And if you’re single, the tools I provide will help you energetically shift so you can attract a partner that truly loves and values you! In this session, I’ll show you how to:
I know you want your family to feel safe and loved, to feel whole, but as long as there is dissention between you and your spouse, your kids will feel the negativity and will often take on the belief that they are to blame. I know you don’t want your kids living from a space of guilt. And, I know you want them to have an incredible example of what it means to be loved, cherished and adored by your partner. Are you setting this example for your kids? It doesn’t matter whether they are young or old, it’s never to late to show your loved ones a healthy, dynamic and connected relationship. And if you’re single, do you want your family to see you angry, hurt or resentful for not having someone in your life? Or do you want to be an example of creating what you want in a relationship from the inside out? You get to choose how you set the tone for your loved ones!
I never felt I had a choice to create a different kind of life for myself and my family. I felt powerless and like a victim to life’s circumstances. I felt as if life were happening “to us,” and then we would “react” accordingly, usually not in a loving, peaceful way. But when I made a decision to learn tools to help me heal my emotional angst and instead create a connection to God, I stumbled upon a different way of “doing family” and realized that WE DO HAVE A CHOICE! I JUST NEVER REALIZED IT UNTIL I FOUND A BETTER WAY. YOU DON’T HAVE TO STUMBLE AROUND LIKE I DID!
YOU HAVE THE POWER to set the example for your kids to THRIVE instead of simply survive. You will give them the best chance at success, love and happiness when you make a decision to step onto the path of The Enlightened Family®. The Enlightened Family® program comes to you in Mp3 downloadable format so you can begin now.
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P.S. Don’t let your family go another day on the hamster wheel of stress and struggle! Give them the greatest chance for inner and outer happiness and success with tools to shift from emotional chaos and lack to peace, abundance and even miracles! You have the power to create this shift when you step onto the path of The Enlightened Family®! This will be the best $197 you’ve ever spent. You could spend hundreds, maybe even thousands, and not get the tools you’ll receive from this audio series. And, remember, I give a 100% Money Back Guarantee. If you don’t like the program, just let us know within 60 days and we’ll return your money in full, no questions asked!
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